Bad Cycles

Sometimes we want to teach people how do things or how to talk to us.  Have you ever realize how do you try to do this? When your kids or your significant other do things in ways that from you point of view is wrong, how do you tell them that is wrong or that you don’t like how the are doing things? Do you yell at them? Do you just ignore them, and you do it the next time? Do you try to talk patiently and explain you point?

I always tell my kids how you treat others are the same way they will treat you. If you don’t like people tell you names, don’t tell them names, if you don’t like that other people yell at you, you should not yell at them, if you like people talk to you patiently, you have to talk to them patiently. If you sow sadness, anger, and disrespect, you will harvest the same sadness, anger and disrespect.

We live in a society that people do not care about anybody or anything. People just care about themselves. We learn to live that way, and treat people that we love in the same way.  It is like a cycle.  We should from time to time evaluate how we are treating others specially the ones that we love.  Patient is something that you learn and develop with time if you believe in yourself. No because you think you are not a patient person means that you never will be patient.

Would you like giving it a try to break the cycle and be a better person?

James 1:19-20

¹⁹ My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, ²⁰ because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.

Big Hug,

MRM